CMake: silence the CMAKE_CXX_EXTENSIONS warning when including Kokkos

CMake: silence the CMAKE_CXX_EXTENSIONS warning when including Kokkos

The CMAKE_CXX_EXTENSIONS variable controls whether CMake sets the
"CXX_EXTENSIONS" property for a target. If this property is set then
CMake ensures that gnu extensions are enabled by default by using
corresponding -std=gnu1X flags instead of -std=cxx1X flags.

Kokkos forcefully disables this variable as soon as FindKOKKOS.cmake is
included with a prominent warning. Thus simply set the variable prior to
including FindKOKKOS.cmake.

On a sidenote - Kokkos' workaround here is not really effective: We
currently do not use the CXX_STANDARD target property but set the
language standard by hand. Thus, the variable is simply ignored.

Also, even if a project happens to use the CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD variable,
this generally doesn't work as the project that includes
FindKOKKOS.cmake can simply override the variable later.